HAS YOUR THINKING EVER GONE ROUND AND ROUND AND ROUND AND ROUND? THIS EXAMPLE WAS WRITTEN BY A SPOUSE AFTER AN UNEXPECTED AND VERY SURPRISING SEPARATION:

She loves me.

She doesn't Love me.

She loves me.

She doesn't Love me.

I really Love Her.

What is it that I love?

Does She love me? Really Love me?

Did she ever love me?

I Love Her.

She doesn't Love me.

But she did Love me. She must Love me.

I am great. Anyone would love me.

But why did she do it? Why?

She doesn't Love me. She couldn't!

But I really Love Her.

What is it that I love?

DOES she love me? Really Love me?

I Love Her.

She doesn't Love me.

She really doesn't.

But she did.

She had to have loved me. She must've loved me.

People don't do those things if they don't love you . . .

She loves me.

She doesn't Love me.

I really Love Her.

What is it that I love?

Does She love me? Really Love me?

Did she ever love me?

I Love Her.

She doesn't Love me.

But she did Love me.

She must Love me.

I am great. Anyone would love me.

But why did she do it?

She doesn't Love me.

She couldn't Love me.

But I really Love Her.

What is it that I love?

DOES she love me? Really Love me?

I Love Her . . .

She doesn't Love me . . .

She really doesn't.

But she did.

She had to have loved me.

How could she have not?

People don't do those things if they don't love you . . . "