DEAR BRIDE AND GROOM,

• No matter what, always remember that you're a team! You're on the same side. That's...s--a--m--e-- same!
  
  
• Don't try to change each other. You fell in love with each other as different people. Always love each other for who you are today and not what you want or expect each other to be in the future. There really is no future anyway.
  
  
• You are not responsible to bring out the best in your partner. You are not responsible for your partner. However, by bringing out the best in you, by being the best you can be, you are surrounding your partner with the best and that has an impact.
  
  
• A marriage is as good as the energy invested in it. No investment, no return. Little investment, little return. Enormous investment, enormous return.
  
  
• Marriage does not mean that you must surrender your individuality as a person. Marriage is a team. It may be a challenge to balance your individual needs with the needs of you two but it is absolutely doable.
  
  
• For all those preparing for a wedding in the near future, I would like to pass on a little tip about your future together. The easiest part of marriage is planning your wedding day. There will be many, many more important days in your life together that will test your love more than walking down the aisle. Brace yourselves, because you are about to embark on something you can never
  understand until your experiencing it yourself. Marriage requires so much of a person's energy. Take your time and enjoy your time alone with each other. And be clear before having children, because when children are added to the mixture, even more is required to endure.
  
  
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