|HOT POTATO #5
Not spending quality time with yourself during these engagement months having persuaded yourself that there isn't enough time and that everything else is more important right now. This potato represents that taking care of yourself is not a priority. This is a real hot one.
HOT POTATO #6
Not scheduling quality time together. And believing it's not a problem--that there will be time tomorrow . "We'll be together after we get married." Or perhaps you think that just living in the same house together and doing errands together is quality time. Maybe it is. But are you sure? Maybe for you two it isn't (?). The longer its been since you checked in to listen to each other's need and your own, the hotter this potato is.
HOT POTATO #7
Not be in charge of ceremony. Not being involved with what's going to be said at your ceremony - letting your officiant or someone else make decisions for you. Forgetting that your your ceremony script is vital because this is your wedding day and you should relate to everything that will be said including the prayer. Forgetting that no one, that's spelled: n-o---o-n-e, knows better than you two what is right for you.
HOT POTATO #8
Choosing to be busy and frantic. Running around in a crazy way like your head is not with you. Not taking the time to organize your life and take everything in stride--one day at a time...one moment at a time.
HOT POTATO #9
In general worrying about anything and everything--not trusting that everything will work (IS working) out just as perfectly as how you two came together in the first place. (Right?)
KNOW ANY OTHER HOT POTATOES? We'd love to hear a new one!
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